What Surprised Her About Memory Care
Planning Ahead for Memory Care:
What Families Need to Know.
Loneliness
Starting the Search
A friend called me recently to talk about her father. He has Alzheimer’s and is living at home with her. He is doing okay at home right now, but she knows that may not always be the case. Instead of waiting for a fall, hospitalization, or other crisis, she decided to start looking at memory care communities now.
Her father doesn't need to move today—and that's exactly why she was looking now. She wanted to understand his options, know what was available, and have a plan before a health crisis forced the family to make a quick decision.
Unexpected Information
She expected to learn about apartments, meals, activities and levels of care. What she didn't expect were some of the costs involved.
1. The Community Fee
Many communities charge a one-time community or entrance fee when you move in. Depending on the community, this can add a significant upfront expense.
2. You Supply Your Own Furniture
Unlike a hospital or rehabilitation stay, assisted living apartments are unfurnished. A bed, dresser, chair, television, linens and all the little things that make an apartment feel like home need to be purchased or brought from home.
3. The Price You Start With May Not Be the Price You Pay Later
As your loved one's needs increase, so can the monthly cost. Additional help with bathing, dressing, medications, mobility or other daily needs may mean additional charges or a higher level of care.
Looking Ahead
My friend was doing exactly what I encourage families to do: look before you have to.
Aging Care Management can help you plan ahead and give you time to compare not only communities but the true cost of each option—and make a thoughtful decision instead of a crisis decision.
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